It's been a long time since I came around...

So it's been a few months since my last post on here.
Reason being, I thought I knew what I was talking about but apparently even the best of us can get it wrong too.
I thought my life was made.
My boyfriend of four years decided to leave me. I knew we had gotten bad but never did I think it was so bad that we couldn't work it out.
I had spent so much time trying to repair my relationship that I had forgotten how to enjoy it. I realize that life isn't always easy and problems come up but I was so blinded trying to work on things, I should have been trying to make myself happy.
I am now in a whole new point in my life. I smile in a way I never knew I could, and I am in love like a cheesy chick flick.
I may have had a roller coaster last few months. But I'm back and coming back on top.
But I wholeheartedly believe everything happens for a reason and that is why I am where I am.
Hold your head high and always remember, no matter how bad this day gets, there will never be another like it. <3

Country Music for Getting Back With the One You Love

Best Country Love Songs for Getting Back Together

As I was looking up songs to put onto this mix Cd, I had a lot of trouble finding songs about getting back together. They were either all about love or heartbreak.
This is my list of country songs that I believe are the best for getting back in into a relationship:

1. Love Won't Run- Steve Holly

2. Crazy Girl- Eli Young Band

3. My Kind of Crazy- Brantley Gilbert

4. We Could Be Forever- Eli Young Band

5. God Gave Me You- Blake Shelton

6. Don't Give Up On Me- Jason Aldean

7. Til My Last Day- Justin Moore

8. Let's Be Us Again- Lonestar

9. You Had Me From Hello- Kenny Chesney

10. Lovin' you, Love me- Chris Cagle

11. Life Ain't Always Beautiful- Gary Allen

12. Learning How To Bend- Gary Allen

13. Wherever You Are- Jack Ingram

14. Forever- John Michael Montgomery

15. Would You Go With Me- Josh Turner

16. Love You Out Loud- Rascal Flatts

17. Only You Can Love Me This Way- Keith Urban

18. Boy Like Me- Jessica Harp

19. You're The Love I Want To Be In- Jason Aldean

20. The Way I Loved You- Taylor Swift

Hope you guys liked the list. <3

Why Do Writers Do What They Do?

Writing is a way of expressing emotions without the consequence that usually follows...

Why do writers write? Writers seem to be one of the most passionate of all career people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. I have never met an author who says I hate my job. Now why is that?

I believe that writing is a way of opening up to the world. Normally shy people can for once in their life put on a different act and be the person they have always wanted to in a book. It is a way of living out a fantasy, a way of expressing emotions that you may never get to experience in real life. Writers portray dreams. They show a side of things that can only be described with mystical explanations.

Writing to me is a way to vent. I sit at my computer and think about all of the bad things that have happened, and I tell people about them.

When I write I can connect with so many different people that I normally wouldn't be able to and those people understand, because if they didn't, they would not have read it.

Many people write because they like to inform people. They like to be the source of facts, whether it's to help people or be a source of entertainment. Writers come in many shapes and sizes, and so many varieties. One person could write a self help story that could change your life, while another could write a news story to present life that has already occurred.

No matter what kind of writing you choose to do, as long as you write about something you're passionate about then you will find your way. You need to love the story in order for it to be it's best because if you can portray passion, then your readers can't feel it.

Life.

An old piece I felt was worth reading:

 I am sitting here thinking about how much energy it takes to be a teenager. Shouldn't these be the easiest years of our lives. I mean come on, no bills, no kids, no responsibility. But it doesn't end up like that. You get a car .Responsibility. A new job because you just turned sixteen. Responsibility. You get a new boy. The biggest responsibility. My mom told me today, as of now, this will be your last summer that you will be able to just hang out. You shouldn't worry about getting a job. Once you get old, you will have to worry enough about those kinds of things. So why don't us teenagers just relax, take life as it comes, and not worry about the stupid things that life throws at us because one day in our lives, we will look back and realize. Wow. I had it so easy back then. I regret not taking advantage of that. So live life, don't regret anything. Because everything that you are doing right now no matter how small, will effect the way your future turns out. 

They can ruin our lives and not even know it...

I'm sitting here thinking of how much I care about this kid. I have never felt this way before. I'm scared though, it seems too good to be true. Nothing in my life ever works out like this. For a little while everything may seem okay but it always falls apart. My family, my friends. I'm doubting my faith in this. Oh but I can't deny how much it breaks my heart that these issues are surfacing. Her opinion matters no matter how much you may deny it. I am not worth it. I am not worth your families relationships or the creation of more drama. Please, understand. You know how it works. We all do. In the end they have the last word. Boy, how I feel for you is indescribable. And I cry everytime I think about it. I can't lose you but is that what it takes? To make them happy. You have been everything and more to me. You have made me happy for the first true time in years. But don't they say "Nothing gold will stay"?

Advice I would be honored to give:

Here are some general ideas that I have come up with:

(What do you think?)

1. Love

2. Heartbreak

3. Bullying

4. Mom issues

5. Step family

6. Drug abuse and how to get back on track

7. First time home-owner

8. Are they really your friends?

9. Divorce

10. Religion

11. How to become the person you've always wanted to be

Life's questions.

I would like to start answering specific questions for people. Leave me a comment if there is something you would like me to give my advice about. I write at least one post a day and would love to have some ideas on what to right about.